Go to your spice drawer, close your eyes, and pick three things at random to sprinkle into your diaper (or panties). Use at least a generous pinch of each spice. If you're lucky, you'll end up with cinnamon sugar, nutmeg, and some allspice berries. If you're unlucky, you'll end up with whole cloves and ginger powder. Don't trust karma to punish you appropriately? Have someone else select your three spices. Don't cook enough to have a spice cabinet? Well, coffee shops have those shakers ...

Have any two players kiss your hands.

Have him Address you as 'Mistress'

You need to do some research on this one you are to find every single BDSM club, organization including contact information in the area, this will also include every single sex shop and adult book store, everything you can find in this genre and document it so that things will be easy to find when it is necessary. This will in- clude Gay bars, and other social networking groups of the like.

The 30 Days of D/s exploration email program is meant to be a conversation starter for kinksters, whether you’re in a D/s relationship or not. This contains one short email per day for thirty days. Each email contains conversation topics and additional resources.