If you’re stuck for motivation on what kind of things you can do to punish your submissive here are some of the punishments that I use on mine:
1. Temperature Play: Punishing your sub with temperature play is powerful. I like to use a dildo a put it in the freezer or into warm water before using it on him, it feels great but it also arouses a lot of discomforts.
2. Ruined Orgasm: Don’t let him know he’s not going to get to cum, build him up to the point of explosion, and just as he begins to cum stop everything you are doing, even better if he is restrained. This works particularly well if you are roleplaying the dominant or extreme persona that I mentioned above.
3. Extend Chastity Lock Up: I like to punish my sub by locking him inside of a cock cage, when it’s time to let him out I will tease him, get his cock all throbbing and ready for me and then decide to keep him locked up for a little while longer, pure torment.
4. Tasks: Have your sub perform acts of duty for you as a punishment, whenever you ask. Have them make any drink, make dinner, make the bed, clean the house, clean all of your sex toys, clean your pussy, go to the store whenever you need even the simplest thing, and even drive you around everywhere.
5. Boring Pointless Tasks: Arguably worse than acts of duty, this punishment requires your sub to wash, then dry up every dish and cup we own, after he is done, make him do it all again. Find any pointless task and just go nuts with it. Have him paint 1000 grains of rice, count the pasta shells in the jar, let your mind run wild with tedious duties.
6. Worship: Have him use a warm towel to clean your feet and then have him massage your feet, back, neck every day after work, turn him into a human leg rest whilst you watch a whole TV show, cuddle and caress whenever you ask.
7. Rubik’s cub: Get a Rubik’s cube, mix it up and punish him with no orgasms or sex until he has completed at least two sides.
8. Roll the dice: Once a day roll the dice, he can cum once you roll a 5. This could last for weeks or even just a day. It’s a gamble but incredibly fun for you but hard for him.
9. Porn: Put his favorite porn on, make him watch it, but don’t let him cum. Masturbate yourself if you want ultimate torture and don’t let him join in.
10. Humiliate: Take embarrassing pictures of him, make him wear a slutty collar in public, make fun of his cock size, and put down his performance even when he is putting the effort in.
11. Cuckold: Have him pleasure your bull, if he can get him to cum all is forgiven, if your bull doesn’t cum when your sub plays with him then the punishments will continue.
12. Ignore: You won’t talk to him for a certain amount of time. Ignore his pleas, his requests and act as if he is totally invisible.
13. Couch: Have him sleep on the couch until you think he should be allowed back into your marital bed.
14. Naked Past 6 pm: Have him be naked or get naked the second the clock hits a time, he must stay this way, even if that means exercising nude or answering the door.
15. Clothes: Have him wear female clothes for an hour (I like to choose my sluttiest tightest mini dress) or make him dress like that for an entire day if he has been really bad.
16. Clamps: Make him wear nipple clamps for 10 minutes, an hour, or a day, depending on how bad he has been, you can even make him wear them outside if you wish.
17. Ball Busting: This means to gain power by punishing him and destroying his confidence, similarly you can also ball-bust him as a punishment by crushing and inflicting pain onto his testicles.
18. Only Cold Showers: Only allow your sub to shower in cold water, watch over him to make sure he doesn’t break the rules.
19. Write On: Write in marker on his body what they did wrong, was he disobedient? slutty? bratty? whatever it was, make sure it’s clear and in plain sight.
20. Exercise: Especially if they don’t work out, find a workout on youtube, something hard, and have him complete the whole video whilst you watch.
21. Cum Play: Take his used condom and make him facial himself, even clean himself up after. For us, these are all things that would make me forgive him.
22. Begging: Make him beg and plead for forgiveness. There’s nothing sexier than a sub begging on their knees for your mercy.
23.Face Sitting: Sit on his face whilst you decide what to do with him next. Make sure your pussy gets right on over his mouth.
24. Have Him Decide: Have him decide what punishment he thinks he deserves. If you think that’s good enough, go for it, if not, find the punishment he was avoiding and go for that one.