9 Things Submissive Men Want Their Dominant Partner to Do in Bed

This list is from a submissive male who is not in a BDSM relationship, but secretly seeks to be.

1. Using words like “pervert”

“It gives me goosebumps when a girl says offensive things to me or calls me out in offensive ways.” Rough, dirty talk hits the spot for submissive men. During your session, keep talking down to him, rudely, and this should get him even more excited.

2. Making him get into a humiliating position, like going on all fours

“It’s even better when she gives out orders aggressively.” It’s a turn-on for some men during foreplay to have their penis fondled while in humiliating positions. If you make him face up like an upside-down frog, that might be as humiliating as well.

3. Licking his anus during a blow job

“It makes me feel so vulnerable when she goes all the way down there that I can almost cum.” Some men get extremely turned on by having their anus licked. Add to this some dirty talk and humiliating positions, and you will rock his world.

4. Going rough in the cowgirl position

“I love cowgirl position. I can really feel like she’s dominating me.” Cowgirl position is popular among submissive men, as the woman will be the one thrusting and controlling the tempo. Along with this, talk to him in a more dominant way to excite him even more.

5. Teasing him right when he’s getting close to reaching climax

“Teasing is just awesome.” You will totally turn the switch on for submissive men if you tease him and delay his climax. Even during foreplay, if you see him starting to feel good, stop licking and change up the sucking and licking force and this will make it spicy for him.