At the heart of many submissive fantasies is the longing to be “objectified.” That is, to be used as something that’s specifically designed for the dominant’s pleasure. This simple scenario takes advantage of that fact in an easy-to-execute manner. This will be the most “dominant” of the options.
This type of scene should happen at a time when you’re aroused and you’re looking for some playtime with your partner. Pick a time when your partner isn’t already poking at you with arousal – but they also have the open time to comfortably enjoy a sexual encounter with you. (You know the times – don’t pick when he’s busy with a project from work, but instead, pick a time when you’re feeling amorous after an intense episode of your favorite show.)
Now that the time is right, you’re going to make it known that you’re turned on. You can start giving him cues – such as getting more touchy or pushing yourself against him – or you can choose to just be upfront and say you want to use his body for your own pleasure. No matter which path you choose, though, as long as you’re dominant without being unreasonable, you’ll likely find that your partner is more than willing to go along with your idea.
How would you like to have intercourse today? Well, it’s all up to you! For the best feeling of “domination,” I recommend a woman-on-top type of position. You can do that while he’s sitting or while he’s lying down. You might find it more fun to do while he’s lying down – it tends to emphasize the power differential a bit more. Once you’ve figured out how you want him, feel free to get him prepped. Add a blindfold. Add some restraints. Remove his clothing to exactly the level you’d like. In fact, feel free to just pull down his pants far enough to reach the parts you want access to. Remember, he’s supposed to be your “toy” right now.
Once you have your partner set up how you want him, feel free to enjoy the type of intercourse or sensation that you’d like. Prefer a vibrator? Force him to hold a wand massager while you enjoy the sensations while straddling his lap. Want intercourse? Feel free to enjoy that too! Want other types of pleasure? Feel free to uncuff his hands and “force” him to pleasure your nipples while you pleasure yourself. If you are both into pegging or strap-on sex, this can be the time that you choose to enjoy that as well. If, at any point, you’d like to be more of a tease, don’t forget that you can remove his blindfold. He’ll be “forced” to watch your pleasure and orgasm – with no way to possibly touch you or do anything besides enjoy watching you. If you truly think he’d enjoy being a “sex toy” for you, don’t let him orgasm. Sex toys don’t orgasm, after all. On the other hand, if you’d rather enjoy his orgasm, feel free to let him come.
No matter what you do, as long as you have your partner’s consent, you get to choose and you get to be in charge.