Scenes for a Beginner Femdom: In Charge of Oral (Scene 2)

Scene 2: In Charge of Oral

This one focuses around the idea of pleasuring your partner and teaching him that his orgasm is yours to control.

Like before, you’re going to go ahead and start with putting a blindfold on your partner. Once he’s blindfolded, you’re going to undress him yourself. Take your time with each item of clothing, and feel free to critique what you see. (Not in a mean way, but in teasing way, such as “Well, these red boxers fit you fine, but I’d be much more pleased if you were wearing the blue ones.” or “I can’t believe you’d show up to play with me with holes in your jeans!”)

Once your partner is stripped down to the degree that you would like, you’re going to take him to the place you’d like him – I recommend a bed, couch, or chair. You’re going to sit or place him on it. Again, he’s blindfolded for this entire experience, so you’re going to be leading him yourself. Feel free to push and turn his body as necessary to make it to the end goal. A bit of playful teasing such as “You couldn’t even make it to the bed without my help” and similar statements are a good addition at this point.

Once you have your partner where you want him, it’s time to show him exactly how “in control” you are. It’s up to you how you want to play this. You can give him the best oral sex of his life and get him off within two minutes if you want. However, I recommend making it a nice, lazy teasing session. Trace your fingers everywhere but where he wants them. Blow chilly air onto his genitals. Use gentle, light touches on his erogenous zones to keep him extremely aroused without gratification.

You can use edging to take this to the next level. If you’re very familiar with your partner’s near-orgasm behavior, you can use that. Otherwise, tell him that you expect for him to tell you when he’s getting close to orgasm – or you’ll make sure he doesn’t get to come at all if he disobeys. Use your hands and mouth to get him to the edge of orgasm – and then pull back before he gets to come. Do this time and time again; most people will begin to get more sensitive and easier to edge. This will mean he’ll only require a couple light strokes to get him near the edge – and you’ll get to enjoy “torturing” him with this pleasure until you decide he’s allowed to orgasm.

Since this is your scene, feel free to end it however you’d like. Deny his orgasm and tell him you’ll let him come tomorrow. Move into intercourse if you’d like. Enjoy the power of facesitting and tell him he doesn’t get to get off until you do. It’s totally up to you – you’re in charge!