So, let’s lay out some ground rules. First, you’ll notice that most of these scenes involve blindfolding your partner. There’s a reason for that. It’s a whole lot easier to feel confident and comfortable doing new things if you’re not worried that your partner can “see” you. Lucky for us, blindfolding someone is also considered to be a form of domination.
Second, for the ease of reading, these scripts will assume a female dominant and a male submissive. Any relationship you want to try this in (casual sex, lesbian partnership, or others) is a good place to start, but to make it easier to read and understand, I’ll be sticking with the scenario of a female dominating a male partner, and using male and female pronouns to describe them. Feel free to change things around to make it work best for your pleasure and your relationship.
Third, all of these scenarios will assume that you and your partner have discussed your taking charge. Choosing to tie someone up or blindfold someone with no prior warning can lead to a disappointing ending – especially if your partner’s answer is “Hell no!” Instead, long before you plan on bringing your fantasy to life, sit down and ask your partner if they’d be OK if you were in charge. Ask them if they’d be OK with being bound or blindfolded – and this is the time for the two of you to discuss and set a safeword as well.
Fourth, you’ll notice a distinct lack of scenarios that revolve around the dominant being the recipient of pleasure. You are free to change around any of the scenarios to include receiving pleasure of your own – there’s nothing “submissive” about “forcing” someone to give you pleasure! However, I’ve found that people who tend to be nervous about dominating a partner for the first time find it even more nerve wracking to force themselves to be stationary and the center of attention. That’s why these scenarios focus on the submissive partner; it will make it easier to get outside of your head and focus on “doing” things instead of just receiving them.
With that in mind, here are a few sensual scenes to help you flex your femdom skills.