Service Submission

We felt that this sub type of submission needed it’s own category, typically speaking a 24/7 Sevice submissive is actually a slave.

Service submission or domestic service is not (necessarily) sexual submission. It tends to refer to submissives who perform services for their Dominant. Continue reading “Service Submission”

Sissies

Sissy slaves come in all shapes and forms, from cuckold sissies to sissy maids, and beyond. A sissy can be of any sexual orientation and identify as any gender. This is also Madam Sabrina’s expertise.

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Slaves

A sub slave enjoys all forms of submission and it doesn’t need to be directly kinky or sexual. Any kind of submission or service is enjoyed by a slave. Their primary purpose is to serve and please their Master/Mistress. BDSM slaves are often exclusively monogamous with their top but this isn’t always the case. Some slaves can be Dominant towards others or enjoy play that involves more people than just the slave and their Master/Mistress.

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Cuckold

Cuckolding is essentially a form of consensual non-monogamy, where one partner watches their lover having sex with another person. Often, cuckolding involves the observing partner (known as the cuckold) being present in the room while they watch, but they could also observe by being sent messages or photos of what is happening.

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Slaves

A slave is a form of submission in which the submissive gives over their own will entirely to their Master. It’s a more encompassing, more entire form of submission, in which the sub doesn’t set their own limits, their boundaries are set for them by their master or mistress. They act as though ‘owned’ by their master and may or may not be masochists, but collars are quite common in this M/s play.
Like any other form of submission, there’s a spectrum in being a slave. Some want to be and are extremely micromanaged. Details like when to eat, what to eat, when to use the bathroom, and when to speak are decided by their Master. Other slaves have fewer of the outward acts but may have a slave heart. I would imagine most if not all slaves have a slave heart, and I’ll let them define that for themselves. Slaves tend to give up even more control to their Dominant partner than other types of submissives do.

Sissies

Sissification, or feminization, is a broader category that involves a (consenting) male partner to be “forced” into a “female” role, often with costumes like school girls or maids, and perform tasks that can be sexual or non-sexual but fulfill the traditional (and often outdated) role of a woman. The goal can be to humiliate the partner by making them a parody of a woman, or involve making them as act out a role as a beautiful femme.

Sissy Types:

  • Sissy Slut
  • Sissy Whore
  • Cuckold Sissy
  • Sissy Maid
  • Sissy Slave

 

Sex Slave

A lot of submissives fall into this category. When it’s time to get naked, I’m the bottom, you’re the top, and I need you (John Brownstone) to lead. Sexual submission might be taking orders and being of use. But it could also be more primal with some amount of resistance and making your Dominant work for your submission. And, as always, it could be somewhere in between the two.

Sissy Slaves

There are several types of sissies, I will try to cover the most prominent types.

The Bedroom Sissy

The Subservient Sissy

The Humiliated Sissy

The Helpless Sissy

The Charm School Sissy

The Sissy Maid

The Sissy Slut

 

Service Slaves

Service submission is not (necessarily) sexual submission. It tends to refer to submissives who perform services for their Dominant. The most common form is domestic service — cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc. But a service submissive may also do your taxes, mow your lawn, clean your pool, or fix your car. The act matters a lot less than the feeling behind it — being of service and making the Dominant’s life a little (or a lot) easier and more comfortable.

Brats & Smart-Assed Masochist (SAM)

A brat is a submissive who purposefully misbehaves or acts out in ways against their Dominant’s wishes. This can be for attention, to test limits, or provoke punishment. This may be because they enjoy the humiliation aspect of being punished, or for purely masochistic reasons.

I don’t think all SAMs are masochists, but they’re kind of the brat of the bunch. They’re definitely trying to provoke their Dominant. As an accidental SAM, I can tell you it’s not always on purpose. I have SAM tendencies but don’t embrace the label because it’s not intentional when I do it. Some SAMs are driven by the punishment, others by the pain. When I’m in SAM mode, John Brownstone knows the worst (and also best) punishment for me is something that doesn’t cause physical pain. (And that’s why he’s the sadist.) I would say that the label of “brat” might be a SAM or it may be the person who wants their submission forced, or a combination of the two.